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Laura/22/England



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Is it true that you never forget your first love? i am in a serious relationship and have been for quite a few years, but i do not think i could ever let go of my first boyfriend. i find that i cant fully give myself to my current boyfriend as i always wonder what if! i am happy im really happy, but i do always wonder what if things had been different... should i try to forget my first love? is it healthy to forget? i think he will always hold a place in my heart that no one could ever fill. i havnt seen my ex for years, snce the day we broke up. do you think it would help me move on if i did see him?

I don't think anyone truly forgets their first love, because it's the first time they've ever felt something so special.
It doesn't mean you can't be in love again, though..
Anyway;
He is your ex for a reason.
What's the point in seeing him again if you are happy. I don't think it will help you - infact, it may do the opposite. Don't ruin a good thing.

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(Rating: 5) 'dont ruin a good thing' good piece of advice.
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