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If he's making excuses about why he can't see you, it's because he doesn't want to see you. If he really wanted to be with you, he'd do whatever it takes to be with you.

There may be some "tricks" you could use to make him go out with you again, but honestly, do you really want a boyfriend who isn't sure he likes you? Of course you don't. You want someone who is so totally crazy about you that he'll do anything to be with you. Unfortunately, as much as you like this guy, he doesn't seem to be the one.

You need to put him behind you and move on. Stop dwelling on him and put him out of your mind. Focus on the important things in your life - friends, family, school, sports, or whatever your interests are. Think about all the great things you have going for you, and you'll realize you don't need this guy after all. If you have that attitude - if you're confident and sure of yourself and value yourself for all the great things you are - that's going to make you a much more attractive person... and then you'll be able to choose whichever guy you want. And it will be a guy who truly deserves you. And who knows, maybe your ex-boyfriend will realize what he's missing and want you back? And then YOU can decide whether you want him or not!

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