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how i can get my boyfriend back when he only give me excuses.


Question Posted Friday October 17 2008, 2:47 pm

how I can get my boyfriend back when he only give excuses about seen each other again

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Jeanne answered Saturday October 18 2008, 2:12 am:
If he's making excuses about why he can't see you, it's because he doesn't want to see you. If he really wanted to be with you, he'd do whatever it takes to be with you.

There may be some "tricks" you could use to make him go out with you again, but honestly, do you really want a boyfriend who isn't sure he likes you? Of course you don't. You want someone who is so totally crazy about you that he'll do anything to be with you. Unfortunately, as much as you like this guy, he doesn't seem to be the one.

You need to put him behind you and move on. Stop dwelling on him and put him out of your mind. Focus on the important things in your life - friends, family, school, sports, or whatever your interests are. Think about all the great things you have going for you, and you'll realize you don't need this guy after all. If you have that attitude - if you're confident and sure of yourself and value yourself for all the great things you are - that's going to make you a much more attractive person... and then you'll be able to choose whichever guy you want. And it will be a guy who truly deserves you. And who knows, maybe your ex-boyfriend will realize what he's missing and want you back? And then YOU can decide whether you want him or not!

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday October 18 2008, 12:40 am:
GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT, AND IF IT DOESN'T WANT YOU BACK THAN IT DIDNT DESERVE YOU ANYWAYS!!!

Excuses are excuses he is just keeping you around on the side. if i was in your situation i wouldn't sit around and wait or beg. take a deep breath and move on.

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beautevil78 answered Friday October 17 2008, 6:04 pm:
umm sorry to break it to you but the reason he might be making excuses is cause he really doesnt want to be together even though he may say so

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michelle823 answered Friday October 17 2008, 4:37 pm:
you probaly cant because if hes making excuses then he probaly doesnt want to see you anymore

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