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im gonna keep this short and simple.
my boyfriend and i live 200 miles away from each other
we see each other once every 1-2 months
meaning we dont really have sex alot, yaknow?
well okay he wants to talk dirty on the phone
i dont
it makes me really uncomfortable/ awkward
he said he doesnt care, it makes him bored
& im a boring, selfish gf because i wont send pics/talk dirty.
what the fucck is that?
i told him to go find someone who would do that because he obviously doesnt care that i dont feel right doing it
and he was like yeah will do
SO SERIOUSLY wtf, now i feel bad for saying that
but that's wrong of him right? or am i being selfish..
17/f
hes 19 (link)
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Don't feel bad, you did the right thing. You were honest and up front about how you felt and instead of him respecting that, he chose to ignore it and be mean to you.
This guy obviously doesn't care about your feelings, he doesn't deserve you, so I would let him go on his own way and find someone else because you deserve better than that jerk.
By the way, you're not being selfish if you're uncomfortable with doing something. You're only being selfish if you are comfortable with something and choose not to do it just to spite the other person.
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