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In my group of friends, there is a boy who I have always thought liked me a little bit. Well, of course I was flattered, but I just kinda brushed it off because I wasn't really interested in him and I didn't really feel like dating anyone at the time, especially him because it would just be too akward. I mean, I never really flat out told him I didn't like him, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but I just politely didn't respond to his attempts to flirt with me.
Now, also in our little social group, there is another boy who in the last couple of months, durring the summer, I have become extremely close to. We have become great friends with eachother, we understand eachother, and naturally, I have begun to have a little crush on him. Well, me and him are like, reeeally flirtatious with each other. I mean, we hug eachother all the time, we snuggle durring movies, we play with eachothers hair, touch eachothers faces, ect. People probably think were dating now that I think about it. But we are not, and we have never kissed or anything. But of course, I like spending time and flirting with him.
Well, my problem is, everytime my crew is hanging out together, Im flirting away with my crush, and then I look over to the other guy, and he just looks totally defeated. I mean, I know how it is- Its horrible to see the person you like flirting with somone else! I just feel horible when I see him watching us. So, what should I do? Should I tone down the flirting with my crush when the other guy is around? I dont want to, but I like the other guy just as a friend and I dont want to hurt him. But if I tone down the flirting, I may never get with the guy I like, and quite frankly, I like flirting with him because I really like him! What should I do??? (link)
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If I were you, I wouldn't flirt with him because you're hurting your friend and to me, my friends are more important than some guy. It's all about priorities, I say you try to figure them out and see which one adds up more. =]
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Rating: 5
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oh no. you are right and I know it.
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