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Now I've had sex before, and it's not like this is my first time or anything. Lately, I've been wanting to have sex with this guy in my car. (My house has been ridiculously crowded.)
But I want it to be completely unplanned... well for him at least. I don't want to be like "Hey, let's have sex in my car!". I want to kind of just have it happen, but I have no idea how to move things from the front to the back seat, or how to just park. Or even how to just start driving aimlessly.
How should I get it into the backseat without saying it? Better yet, how do I get him to just drive around with me aimlessly?
First, even though you're trying to make it SEEM random, be sure to put a lot of effort into planning the whole thing.
If you're going to be driving, be sure your car has a reasonably spacious backseat, especially if you or your boyfriend are tall people. A Honda Accord is better than a Honda Civic in this case. The ideal vehicle would be a minivan with rear/mid seats that fold down/are removeable (A Toyota Senena, for example). If you have one, be sure to do all this work before the date starts.
Chances are, the "surprise" car sex will occur toward the end of the date, or at least during a time where you and your boyfriend aren't already doing something. If you ever have one of those "What should we do?" moments, that's the perfect time to suggest something like "Want to go for a drive?". If your boyfriend needs convicing tell him something to the effect of: "It can be entertaining enough just to drive around and talk to each other, and it's good for our communication." Besides being convincing, it's also true.
If you're driving, look for a quiet suburban neighborhood with no streetlights (Or at least, few streetlights). Find a spot not directly in front of a house, but in front of a bush or something. If your boyfriend is driving, make subtle suggestions to him to get him to drive where you want to. ("Turn here", "pull over here", etc etc). It helps if you have a place in mind beforehand, so a little bit of preperatory scouting may be nessessary.
As for moving into the backseat, just start kissing or making out or whatever it is you do, and then stop, move into the backseat, and call him back. He won't say no.
(Rating: 5) I enjoyed the car suggestions, as though I'm going to buy a new car for the occasion lol Thanks =]