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I like this guy, i know i do. But like sometimes i sit and think to myselp "why"...I can never answer it. All i get is he makes me feel...and thats it. I dont know i just cant explain it. And i dont know why. All i got is He makes me feel...
I cant debate my feelings, i have so many times there is nothing left. Matter of fact thats how i got "he makes me feel..."

well like he has told people before he likes me, and like i said i know i like him i just cant figure out why. Like he isnt cute nd he can be a real jerk sometimes, but its so cute how he gets jealous and how he smiles everytime he sees me. And how he tries to make me happy if im sad. And he kissed my neck before and i thought i was going to i dont know what :) and he acts like hes going to bite me playfully to get me laughing, he defends me. But i cant tell WHY i like him. Lke if someone says why do you like him? i just stand there like a retard because i fully cannot answer the question because it is like hard to explain. I want you to help me figure out why i like him.

And i have another question, i dont know how true this is because i have never heard it...
Someone told me that if a guy kisses your neck and you enjoy it, that its love...

Firstly, in a majority of cases (especially at your age), you won't be able to give solid "reasons" about the way you feel. In reality, they aren't that important.

The neck kissing thing is rather untrue. If a guy kisses your neck and you enjoy it, it's lust or it's physical attraction. It COULD be love, but it's foolish and dangerous to assume that the first two automatically mean the third.


Sooo, I can't help you figure out why you like him. You just do. Love is emotional business, a far cry from structure and logic. You really don't need to concern yourself with the "Why". If you like him, you like him. It needs no further justification than that.

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(Rating: 5) Ok thank you and i agree with the whole kisses your neck thing, it sounded odd to me too.

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