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i think i'm seriously overly sensitive.
it all started a few months ago when my friend, her boyfriend and i all hung out at her house one night, and we were playing question games. he asked, "what's your idea of a perfect date?" and she went on and on and on and then they turned to me and i was like, "just a nice dinner." and he just looked at her, turned to me, scoffed, turned back to her and said -- as though i wasn't even SITTING there -- "oh she doesn't know what she's talking about. she's never had a boyfriend." and i was so upset. i just. i really just wanted to cry.
so recently, she had a party at her house and we were playing games and although there were more people, OF COURSE, i got asked the same question by someone else. he interrupts, says, "IT'D BE TOTALLY CLICHED WITH ROSES AND A FULL MOON AND.." and i got so unbelievably upset. i mean. yes i don't have a boyfriend but what the hell is your fucking problem, buddy? what have i ever done to you? it hurt so much that people actually think that i'm waiting for a perfect guy and he'll just POP OUT OF NOWHERE.
i always tell people that i'm just waiting for the right guy, and i know he won't be perfect, but what he said was very, very hurtful.
later in the game, we had to explain what he liked most about each player mentally / emotionally / personality traits and i was such a huge bitch. i didn't mean to, but i was like, "um. you can be nice. sometimes." and i think he really doesn't like me right now and i don't want him to think i'm like that so i have a few questions..
1.) am i being overly sensitive? please be honest i just got so hurt i think i'm just going mad.
2.) do you think i should say sorry? i feel so horrible about what i did and my friend was like, "awww poor baby" to him and then it hit me that i might have said it rudely.
i feel so horrible... but it is NOT MY DESIRE to break up my friend and her boyfriend. he is very sweet to her. and he won't hurt her. he's only mean to everyone else. i have nothing against him as a person; it's me. i'm too sensitive. (link)
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what you said was great, maybe even not rude enough. you arent being overly sensitive
theres nothing wrong with wanting a romantic guy
if a guy is mean to everyone except his girlfriend, chances are hell be mean to her soon enough
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Rating: 5
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thanks for being the only person that thinks i'm not overly sensitive / overreact.
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