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my friend's boyfriend
15.f
i think i'm seriously overly sensitive.
it all started a few months ago when my friend, her boyfriend and i all hung out at her house one night, and we were playing question games. he asked, "what's your idea of a perfect date?" and she went on and on and on and then they turned to me and i was like, "just a nice dinner." and he just looked at her, turned to me, scoffed, turned back to her and said -- as though i wasn't even SITTING there -- "oh she doesn't know what she's talking about. she's never had a boyfriend." and i was so upset. i just. i really just wanted to cry.
so recently, she had a party at her house and we were playing games and although there were more people, OF COURSE, i got asked the same question by someone else. he interrupts, says, "IT'D BE TOTALLY CLICHED WITH ROSES AND A FULL MOON AND.." and i got so unbelievably upset. i mean. yes i don't have a boyfriend but what the hell is your fucking problem, buddy? what have i ever done to you? it hurt so much that people actually think that i'm waiting for a perfect guy and he'll just POP OUT OF NOWHERE.
i always tell people that i'm just waiting for the right guy, and i know he won't be perfect, but what he said was very, very hurtful.
later in the game, we had to explain what he liked most about each player mentally / emotionally / personality traits and i was such a huge bitch. i didn't mean to, but i was like, "um. you can be nice. sometimes." and i think he really doesn't like me right now and i don't want him to think i'm like that so i have a few questions..
1.) am i being overly sensitive? please be honest i just got so hurt i think i'm just going mad.
2.) do you think i should say sorry? i feel so horrible about what i did and my friend was like, "awww poor baby" to him and then it hit me that i might have said it rudely.
i feel so horrible... but it is NOT MY DESIRE to break up my friend and her boyfriend. he is very sweet to her. and he won't hurt her. he's only mean to everyone else. i have nothing against him as a person; it's me. i'm too sensitive.
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i think your response was great your not overly sensitive belive me at 15 it might seem like oh im too old for not even had a boyfriend before but actually its quiet young when you grow up you'll understand it , i had my first boyfriend at the endo f 15 starting 16 and i think it was better this way when i grew older cause when your young you have more limitations on where to go , hours , etc plus parents problem maybe ..so just enjoy your youth believe me theres nothing wrong with you not having a boyfrriend at 15! its actually something really good so this way when you have a relationship you'll be more mature to deal with all the stuff and not just like a kids relationship or something your friend is just wrong about thinking this way but hey the person who say this is really stupid just dont care about it at 15 you people bother each other so much hahaha :) but theres nothing wrong with you :)
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what you said was great, maybe even not rude enough. you arent being overly sensitive
theres nothing wrong with wanting a romantic guy
if a guy is mean to everyone except his girlfriend, chances are hell be mean to her soon enough
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