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(Im 15 and female by the way darlings)
So there is this guy that started flirting with me a few weeks back, and I don’t know why. But anyway he is pretty much a player, and I keep telling myself that, but when ever I see him he is always a sweetheart and flirty to me. He is a senior too. And he is going to leave within like a week. But I don’t know what to tell him. He probably won’t even talk to me after he leaves. I want to tell him that I like him, but then I just become "just another girl" for him to add to his large collection. I like him for the guy he is when he is alone, because when he is around others he is like really flirty and perverted with everyone he sees. We text allot, but then again he texts just about everyone and their dog. When we text its like REALLY sexually oriented. But when we talk he is such a charmer, and nice and funny. When he is alone I think he seems so much more real, and not so full of an ego. He is really smart and we can talk about lots of stuff on the same level, unless its music, on several occasions we spent over a half an hour with him showing/teaching me about music on the piano in the back of the auditorium (play practice). It was a different person almost, and that’s what I like. I don’t know what I want, and I don’t know what he wants, but I really don’t want a broken heart because I am afraid he would break it (which is most likely)
He is just messing with me isn’t he? I can’t help myself but I don’t want him to know it
That’s why I think he flirts with me, because I didn’t fall head over heels for him when he started talking to me, and it makes me so angry to think I am a conquest of some kind. So it’s the Hard to get thing. He sees me as a challenge right? I keep telling myself that but I just can’t help myself. This is part of his charm.

just tell me what you think. I think I also have trust issues kinda bad. that might be part of it =)

The problem here is you're unsure of this guy's intentions. Rather than going into every possible doomsday scenario on what he COULD want, my advice to you would be to find out what it is he wants (Keep in mind that he could even be lying then, but at least it's a start) and make your choices from there accordingly.

However, I do have to say that if he's leaving within a week, you'd be best off not bothering.

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(Rating: 4) hahaha thanks hun =) yep tomorrow is his last full day
but i refuse to lot myself cry about it because there is no point

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