BIOGRAPHY:
My name is Carrie, and I just recently turned 25. I've been told that I give excellent advice, so I created this column last year with the intention of helping as many people as possible. Although I do believe I succeeded, I ultimately turned my back on this column when I discovered just how cruel and thankless some people can be. Almost one year later a lot has changed. I've gained a whole new perspective on life and the world around me. I'm much more positive, sympathetic, and willing to listen when people truly need help. So now I've decided to come back and focus my attention on the individuals who are truly in need of advice.
ADVICE:
I'm very genuine when it comes to giving advice. I try to be sympathetic to the person asking the question, but I don't ever sugar coat things. I've learned quickly that many people who ask for help don't really want advice - they want someone who will say what they want to hear. Sorry, but you're not going to get that with me. I'm not here to make friends (if a friendship happens though, yay for me!). You'll always get the truth from me whether you like it or not. While the truth may sting just a bit to begin with, it will absolutely set you free in the long run. If you want to be lied to, please seek advice from somebody else.
CONTACT INFO:
If you like my advice and have additional questions for me, click on the link right underneath this profile that says "Ask Me A Question." If you leave your follow-up question for me in my feedback, I have no way of replying to it. Please use the link. Also, I have an e-mail address where people can get in touch with me if they need to. Feel free to use it.
IMPORTANT:
This may be a hobby in some people's eyes, but I don't like it when people waste my time regardless of whatever it is I'm doing, which in this case, is providing a free service out of the kindness of my heart. So please don't ask me stupid questions, and please make an effort to type sensibly so that I can read and understand your question. I know there are a lot of young people on this site, but that's no excuse to type like you're brain dead. Proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation is highly appreciated with me. The more intelligent your question is, the more intelligent of a response you'll get from me.
ABOUT ME:
Here are some facts about me. I like pop music (especially Madonna). I like horror movies (especially Scream). I like to chat (on MSN). I love to write (poetry, screenplays, short stories). I love shopping (Best Buy). I'm a gamer (I'm better than a guy - Xbox 360 all the way). I have a MySpace (Click "Ask Carrie" for the link). I love my doggies (I have 2). I'm not a bitch (...well, sometimes). I love to laugh (and sometimes I pee a little when I do). It happens.
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Location: South Carolina
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Age: 25
Member Since: June 10, 2007
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13/f
OK. So i have problems with likeing guys. i like 2 guys at once and they both like me back. and this always happens to me. and then i end up making the wrong choice. plus i cant stay in a relationship. my friends go out with there boyfriends for like 2-10 months. im a select soccer player who likes emo stuff dresses prep/skater/geek/whatever i feel like. i like to read and i like computers. I love to talk and everything. plus im geeky and a tomboy. SO that makes a very odd person. and i cant find a guy that fits into more than 2 of those things so sometimes its hard. so bottem line is
1)how can i find out what type of guy i want
2)how can i keep myself out of love triangles
3)why does this have to happen!!
Please help. = ( (link)
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You could avoid all of this aggravation by being single, which really isn't as hideous an idea as it may seem to you and your friends. Instead of putting yourself out there to get hurt and frustrated, why not be a little more reserved and let the boys come to you? By making them come to you, you're increasing your chances of finding the boy who's right for you.
You're only 13 years old (don't hate me for saying "only," I mean it as a compliment!), you have your whole life to engage in this kind of drama. Although this drama may make you feel older and cooler now, you might have to deal with this frustration for 10 or 20 years (maybe more) to come, and you'll be wishing you'd just chilled out when you were 13.
It sounds like you're a really fun and unique girl. Don't waste your time worrying about boys. Do things that make you happy. In the meantime, your lack of interest in them will only frustrate them more and, in return, make them want you more. You'll be doing yourself a favor by focusing your attention somewhere else. So rock out and show them what they can't have.
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