I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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hey there.
i just want to ask you for advice on your first loves. do you remember them? do you remember exactly what it was like? how did you know you were in love for the first time? how old were you? did it work out, if not what happend? details are important to me so please only answer if your passionate about 'first loves'. thanks.
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Truthfully, I don't think you ever forget you first love.
For me, I have kind of had two. I had the first 'love' when I was younger. You know, the guy you think you love and it's the first time you ever feel anything close to it. What I class as my REAL first love, is the man I am with now and have been with for the last nearly five years.
In both cases, I remember exactly every little detail of the most significant moments. The nice things both guys did for me, the way I felt, the little ways they showed they cared and the moments that were particularly special in some way. The first guy, it was as close to love as I think you can get at that age. I thought about him all the time and wanted him to be happy, but especially with me! We were good friends and I remember always wanting to be at school, because that's where he was. I had what I came to call a 'thing' for him for about two years, when I was 11 and 12, although I didn't really get over him until I was about 15 or 16. It didn't work out with him because a 'friend' deliberately screwed it up for me. I was devestated and cried for a very long time. Thankfully, I bumped into him some years later and realised I actually had a lucky escape...!
My current love, my one true love, is very different in many ways. I knew I was in love because..it's like nothing I ever imagined because it's a million times better. I want to be with him as much as possible. I can talk to him about literally anything. We support each other and don't judge each other. I look at him and I know my present and my future are with him and could never be with anyone else. I was 17 when I met him and am 22 now. We started off as very good friends, fell in love over time and now live together. We aren't engaged as there is no obvious hurry and we are very happy with each other as we are.
I truly believe that first loves are very important. The difficulty is in distiguishing those feelings that seem like love from true love. It's something nobody can describe accurately, because it's something you feel. Something you just know.
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