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okay so im kinda in a rut and i was just wondering, can you guys give me advice on why its important to be grateful for everything you have? also can you give me some examples of where youve personally had to believe that. also, people always say to me every experience has a silver lining. any thoughts? also...what do you really believe in? and why? like...i believe that you should always treat others the way you would like to be treated. what do you think? any thoughts would be appreciated. im going through a hard time right now and i just need some advice on beliefs and values. thank you for your time. (link)
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It's important to be grateful for everything you have for various reasons, a major one being that not everyone is as fortunate as you are. There are many people without a place to stay, out in the cold shivering to death, hoping that a miracle will come their way and they will find some place to stay, even if only for a night. Many people don't have food to eat or water to drink, they don't have family or friends or any type of support system.
Many children don't even grow up with toys to play with, or any parents who really care enough about them to take care of them. If the reasons I just listed aren't enough, then think about how hard your family or you have worked to get where you're at. You didn't get here by doing nothing, you worked for the things you have, whatever they may be, and knowing that you were willing and able to do those things and people close to you did the same to provide for you is a great thing, my friend.
Please, do not lose sight on the good things in life. I have been where you are, depressed and not sure where to turn or even if the turn is worth making. I have went through death after death in my family, including my dad when I was 11, I have went through various friendship and dating problems, etc. Yet I still consider myself very blessed, and you are blessed as well with the things and people you have.
Believe me, life is a beautiful thing - don't waste it. Look at the things you're good at and find a great dream, and then plan to make sure that dream will come true. Find things that you enjoy doing and make you happy, go out and do those things more often. Keep yourself surrounded by positive people, you don't need people who only talk, think and act negatively. Those people do not have your best interest at heart, and you do not need those kinds of people.
I hope that you will follow my advice here, and really listen and consider what I have to say. I believe it will help you in your life, and I wish you the best of luck!
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thanks so much. i will honestly take your advice into consideration. thank you so much. best of luck with everything your doing.
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