Jeanne's advice column

okay so this guy i've been talking to since like the beggining of february has a girlfriend.
and they've been dating for like 2 years and last night i sent him a picture.
it wasn't revealing or anything but it was kinda..
ya okay so then he kept trying to get me to send him another and i can't.
i can't just be the one to break up a couple of 2 years and i dont really care if he ever talks to me again but what should i do if he asks me again??
b/c the last time i said no and reminded him he has a girlfriend..but idk.

thank you

Good for you... I'm glad you feel that way. Because I'm sure you know how bad you'd feel if someone was sending YOUR boyfriend pictures. It's just not right, and it's good that you've realized that.

If he asks you again, just tell him the same thing. Tell him you're sorry you sent him that one in the first place... that it was a mistake, and you were wrong to do it, because he has a girlfriend. And don't let him give you the old "but I'm gonna break up with her" routine. That's a bunch of BS that guys use to keep stringing you along while they have their cake and eat it too. If he actually does break up with her, then fine... he's fair game. But as long as he's still taken, then he's off limits. And not just for his girlfriend's sake, but for yours as well.

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(Rating: 5) thank you, atleast i know what to do now!

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