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flirt. but taken
okay so this guy i've been talking to since like the beggining of february has a girlfriend.
and they've been dating for like 2 years and last night i sent him a picture.
it wasn't revealing or anything but it was kinda..
ya okay so then he kept trying to get me to send him another and i can't.
i can't just be the one to break up a couple of 2 years and i dont really care if he ever talks to me again but what should i do if he asks me again??
b/c the last time i said no and reminded him he has a girlfriend..but idk.
thank you
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Do the exact same thing you did last time: Tell him to go talk to to his girlfriend.
Remember, other people can't 'break up' a couple that doesn't want to break up, but you can make a mess of things and loose some self respect if you carry on with a guy who is taken.
Don't feel too guilty! Yes, sending him a picture was a mistake, but lots of girls have this wonderful way of believing something is all thier fault when it is in fact HIS. Who the hell is he to be going around chatting girls up online and asking for intimate pictures of them behind his girlfriends back? That is pretty scummy behavoir. Let him know that you know how wrong it is, and that you expect him to stop it.
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Good for you... I'm glad you feel that way. Because I'm sure you know how bad you'd feel if someone was sending YOUR boyfriend pictures. It's just not right, and it's good that you've realized that.
If he asks you again, just tell him the same thing. Tell him you're sorry you sent him that one in the first place... that it was a mistake, and you were wrong to do it, because he has a girlfriend. And don't let him give you the old "but I'm gonna break up with her" routine. That's a bunch of BS that guys use to keep stringing you along while they have their cake and eat it too. If he actually does break up with her, then fine... he's fair game. But as long as he's still taken, then he's off limits. And not just for his girlfriend's sake, but for yours as well.
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stick to your morals sweet-heart and no snapping photo's. Remind him as many times as you need to that he has a girl friend. Besides did you know about 67.9% of pictures like these " sorta revealing but not really" are actually shaired with friends who shair them with more friends and end up filtering around school/workplace/etc. Thats more then half. Do yourself a favor and stay away from it all.
Hope i helped: )
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Either ignore him compleltly, tell gim to get lost, or nicely tell him no. Just be like, "sorry, no, I'm not your girlfriend. last time I sent you a pciture, it was a mistake."
Just ward him off and don't give in, if he doesn't stop, threaten him, tell him that you'll tell his girlfriend.
Good luckk
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