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hi well, okay lets see im a muslim girl. and i have a boyfriend....and i just wanna know the opinions of other muslim people out there about dating? sex before marriage? and of these other issues related to the drama teens face these days. also, how do you judge how 'muslim' someone is? please answer - if your muslim. any other comments are also appreciated.
I'm going to keep it real with you. If you love Aalah and you feel that Islam is your thing, then I would suggest that you pray to Aalah to give you strength, wisdom and guidence. I would say let your courage guide you. I was raised in a religion that had moral restrictions too...a lot of people were just getting married to have sex and that is so lame to me. This way to them and the religios community it was "ok". How is that truly ok though when your heart is not in the right place. On the real, if the dude is your soul mate and your true love, you all could be virgins or celebate for the rest of your lives and it wouldn't matter. Yeah it might make you a little sad but you would get over it cause love is about more than sex. Sex is apart of it yeah, but not all of it. Things have not changed at all, if you are strong in your mind it does not matter what the people around you say and do, all that matters is what you feel is right in your heart with God. I was a virgin until I was 20 going on 21. I didn't have a open mouth kiss until I was 19 and that was my choice. I spoke with God and prayed and when I felt it was ok, I did what I did. You gotta do the same thing. I don't know if you are the kind of Muslim that's family does arranged marriages, but my friend was in that kind of family. I would say if that is the deal that you pray to the universe to send you the most loving, special, beautiful and supportive man for you. This way even if it is arranged, you will have the love of your life.
As far as judging how "religiously commited" someone is, you pray for the truth to be shown to you, and that you will have the wisdom and accaptence to trust what you see and feel. When you pray for this you always see the truth. Try it. Peace.
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