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I've always had a 6th sense for detecting peoples body lang. and things like that. I also get these feelings that I have to protect someone...

I'm a 15/m and I feel like I have to protect this guy. And I don't know why or how or when b/c he barely talks to me. His life is not the best and I think that's why I have to 'take care of him', kinda like a brother... but the guy won't talk to me and it's very hard for him to trust people b/c of family issues... idk what to do... normally I would just let it go right? ... WRONG!!!

I can't stop thinking about him... and it's not like I like the guy... I just can't stop wondering if he's ok today, or if he's smiling and happy. I feel like I have to play the part of father? I don't know what to do! Why can't I just stop thinking and worrying about him!?

What should I do? Have you ever felt like you had to protect someone that you've never met?

Please Help!
Thanks in advance.

-Andy

i think you just might be protectant over him because you want to see him happy, thats not a bad thing at all. maybe you just want him to have a good life, maybe you want hm to have a life that he wont dread when he gets older. maybe you should start to become frinds with him, maybe so you can talk to him about it + maybe so you wont be so protective over him.

well, for me, even friends, i have to make sure they are ok, because you know, there my friends, + i want them to be happy. but even aqqaintences, people that i dont really know, its good to make them feel like they have someone that is protecting them, its a good thing.

dont worry!

hope i helped!

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