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I was wondering, I am getting with this girl, and dont want to immediately have sex with her just yet, without first getting us tested for VD's but my question is this.. Can I safely lick her pussy and she give me head and be assured that NEITHER of us can catch a disease? I KNOW that I AM CLEAN and have no VD's or other infections. I have been tested and have only been with my wife of 11 years, now she is gone, divorcing me and I have to move on and have found a really hot girl to go forward with. I just want to be safe. Thank you.

If the girl has an STD of the mouth, such as herpes, gonnereah, or syphillis, amongst others, you can catch whatever she has if she gives you a blowjob. Likewise, you can get an STD in your mouth from giving her oral sex if she has an STD in her lower region.

EDIT: In response to you feedback, if she has sores in her mouth or genital area, she has an STD. Remember though, not all STDs have visible sores.

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(Rating: 5) that sucks!! How can you tell? I mean unless I have her get bloodwork is there any other way to know?

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