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Can a GUY get any diseases from getting a blowjob?Or giving

Question Posted Wednesday December 12 2007, 9:20 pm

I was wondering, I am getting with this girl, and dont want to immediately have sex with her just yet, without first getting us tested for VD's but my question is this.. Can I safely lick her pussy and she give me head and be assured that NEITHER of us can catch a disease? I KNOW that I AM CLEAN and have no VD's or other infections. I have been tested and have only been with my wife of 11 years, now she is gone, divorcing me and I have to move on and have found a really hot girl to go forward with. I just want to be safe. Thank you.

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Additional info, added Thursday December 13 2007, 6:22 am:
Ok so the chances are low, huh? Well she doesnt appear to have any sores on or in her mouth, or down below, her peach looks clean and smells like spring water, she doesnt do drugs either, and that brings a secondary question to mind, tongue kissing, is there a risk of catching something from that? Also, if my package doesnt have any sores or cuts or even broken skin, and she licks me til I cum, is there a risk I can catch something from her? I mean would the possible STD be able to infect me by going up my umm urethra? Is that what its called? Right? A urethra? The hole I pee from? Could it like go swimming up in there? And say I went and washed it off in the sink realy quick, I wouldnt want to run to the sink to wash it, not to be rude you know, but should I even wash it? Or use a wet wipe? Which is better and how long should I wait before washing it off? Thanks for the answers. .

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday December 13 2007, 6:04 am:
Get tested first if you're worried about it.

There are very low chances but the chance is still there. To be safe, get tested together. Because I will be completely honest, you dont want to have oral sex with a dental dam or condom. It ruins the entire experience on both sides.

Be safe in other ways. Get tested.


The only thing you can do is exchange cold sores kissing. If she has no open sores, no danger.

I cant think of anything saliva can transfer. Licking shouldnt be an issue.

Washing will not affect anything, so don't bother.

All in all, you are entirely too nervous about this. Don't have sex with her or eat her out or get a blowjob until you get tested. That being said, take a lunch hour tomorrow and go get tested. Results usually come very fast. When she comes back clean (which she probably is)

Get tested and stop freaking out so much. Play with her, let her play with you, and if you're really that paranoid then dont do anything involving anything but hands touching privates.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday December 13 2007, 12:29 am:
If the girl has an STD of the mouth, such as herpes, gonnereah, or syphillis, amongst others, you can catch whatever she has if she gives you a blowjob. Likewise, you can get an STD in your mouth from giving her oral sex if she has an STD in her lower region.

EDIT: In response to you feedback, if she has sores in her mouth or genital area, she has an STD. Remember though, not all STDs have visible sores.

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