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Alright, I've been looking into this univeristy that seems to be a good option for me, but other than the large classes there is just ONE big problem, the girls are all beautiful. I've always been extremely self-conscience and obsessed with looking beautiful, and I've been miserable the last 3 years because my classmates have all been models. Since all I ever hear about this uni is "the girls are amazing" "its very competitive to get guys since they have so much to choose from" I'm a bit hesitant about even applying - especially since I know that when I go to states like New Jersey I always get tons of attention for my long curly hair and "nice ass" (Im more of the latin type of beautiful) but the state I'm considering is mainly into the beach blonden type of beautiful.. Im just so afraid of being an outcast, or considered ugly, or even just average. Should I even apply?

Well, first of all, if this is a large university, there's no way that every single girl there is drop dead gorgeous. It's just statistically impossible! Sure, there may be more pretty girls there than at some other schools, but they are still going to be the minority of the student population. What you're hearing is just rumors and propaganda, most likely spread by guys and their imaginations!

But think of it this way. If guys really believe that the girls at this school are beautiful, then subconciously, they're gonna think you're beautiful just because you go there! It's the same way people think that certain brands are "better" because they're expensive or have a certain label. They just expect it to be better, so whether it is or not, they believe it!

Also... if most of the girls are blonde beach types, your Latin beauty will make you stand out from the rest!

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