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University population TOO pretty
Alright, I've been looking into this univeristy that seems to be a good option for me, but other than the large classes there is just ONE big problem, the girls are all beautiful. I've always been extremely self-conscience and obsessed with looking beautiful, and I've been miserable the last 3 years because my classmates have all been models. Since all I ever hear about this uni is "the girls are amazing" "its very competitive to get guys since they have so much to choose from" I'm a bit hesitant about even applying - especially since I know that when I go to states like New Jersey I always get tons of attention for my long curly hair and "nice ass" (Im more of the latin type of beautiful) but the state I'm considering is mainly into the beach blonden type of beautiful.. Im just so afraid of being an outcast, or considered ugly, or even just average. Should I even apply?
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First off, if you go to a university, the classes will be large. If you go to a large university, you won't be able to avoid it, so don't discount it immediately.
As for the attractive girls, men don't all have the same tastes. Obviously, while some do like the fake-n-bake blondes, others will like different types. Actually, I've heard my guy friends complain about how girls who wear tons of makeup are using "false advertising". Ha.
Plus, I don't know how it is there, but our pretty girls get lazy and start wearing sweatpants and Uggs to class. Not a good look :P
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Well, first of all, if this is a large university, there's no way that every single girl there is drop dead gorgeous. It's just statistically impossible! Sure, there may be more pretty girls there than at some other schools, but they are still going to be the minority of the student population. What you're hearing is just rumors and propaganda, most likely spread by guys and their imaginations!
But think of it this way. If guys really believe that the girls at this school are beautiful, then subconciously, they're gonna think you're beautiful just because you go there! It's the same way people think that certain brands are "better" because they're expensive or have a certain label. They just expect it to be better, so whether it is or not, they believe it!
Also... if most of the girls are blonde beach types, your Latin beauty will make you stand out from the rest!
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YES! The truth is, there will be beautiful girls everywhere. I am Hispanic and the college I go to has a lot of pretty blonde girls and it's fine. I don't worry about it because in the end you are there for your education and being intimidated by "beautiful girls" hardly matters.
Go for this school if it is important to you. You will regret it later. Good luck and don't worry about those girls. Remember Latin type of beautiful can be more beautiful than typical beautiful.
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If you think this college is the right option for you, go for it. Believe me, I have always been the blue-eyed light-haired pretty girl and I have NEVER in my entire life snubbed or rejected someone for looking different. I used to have a best friend who was Latin American, and I never took it into consideration. Have more confidence in what you look like. If you travel out of your comfort zone, you will gradually become more and more comfortable with people you don't know. You said you were comfortable in New Jersey, so I found you a list of colleges you could check out in case you think you would really like to be somewhere else. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) But I don't think that a confidence issue should stop you from accomplishing your dreams. If this really is the school for you, go for it because you might regret it later.
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