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okay please dont answer if you cant handle this subject!Also please dont answer if your going to start preching to me because ill jus rate you a 1!!mmmk! so i was talking to my bf and he said that his mom somedays made him read the bible and he asked me do i read it and i said no.then he asked me did i go to church and i said no and he said well thats bad because your probably not going to go to heaven.then this girl who sits next to me who i am friends with who is very religious(dads a preacher)had to jump into the conversation and add her two cents.she started preachen about how if you dont beleieve in god your going to hell and blah blah blah.i simply told them i dont really beleive in jesus and that whole heaven and hell thing! then these other to girls jumped into the conversation to add some of there two cents.they said its common sence that if you dont beleive in jesus your going to hell and i said again that i just dont beleive in that stuff.then the girl sitting besid me started telling me about how she had seen and been through stuff...like she said that she knew somebody that had died and come back from the dead.i just kind of looked at her and was like,yeah sure whatever you say and tried to end the conversation there!I just want to know why people get so jumpy on the subject! why do people constantly try to convince u that jesus is real?!?i take civics and it clearly says in the 1st amendment "freedom of religion" so why are people constantly trying to get people to beleive in that stuff?!?then people start to get mad because i dont beleive in all that and i dont go to church!honestly the theory that are bodies disinigrate and become part of the earth is more logical then- there is a GOD in the sky that tells people if they diserve to go to a good place if they have been good or a bad place if they have been bad!and another thing...the bible was not written by GOD!it was written by a bunch of people who wanted to make it for whatever reason! so yeah...i dont get mad at people if they beleive in all of that but i dont understand why people get mad at me because i dont! its absolutely completely immposible to talk to these danm ignorant people about christianity!!!all they do is argue about how were going to hell!!!there is no hell to go to so it really doesnt matter!!!!i just wish some people would leave it alone!!why do they feel they are right in every way and everyone should beleive in jesus! i just would like to know a good way to deal with these kind of situations if i ever do get into one again which i probably will! i do not want to start going off at the mouth which sometimes i badly do want to because there so ignorant and stuborn but i do want to get my point across so any advice?!?!?
I definitely know where you're coming from, but I gotta say: don't even try. You will never make them see eye to eye with you. Religion is one subject that should never be discussed in public, because it will ALWAYS start a fight, and it has been starting fights for centuries. I personally hate it when people talk to me about religion and try to make me realize that their way is better--and it's very hurtful when they say I'm going to hell. I don't believe in hell, but it makes me upset that they place going to Church over actual morals and doing the right thing simply because it's right. It sucks, I know. It's like they're forcing their religion on you. But, you must also realize that you are also being ignorant. And I've been there, too. Not every Christian is like this, just the ones you know. I know a lot of wonderful Christians who do not try to force their beliefs on me. But I also know some of the sucky ones. It seems like you're pretty young, maybe they'll get over it when they get older. Or maybe not. But the best you can do right now, is to tell them that you don't want to fight over religion, so you should agree to disagree and not talk about it again. You will not be able to educate them on why it's okay to not believe in Jesus any more than they are going to convince you that you must believe. So if it's going to start a fight every time you talk about it, and it will, find something else to talk about. If they keep bugging you, just stop listening.
EDIT: Also, a person who is clinically dead CAN come back to life if they are revived immediately. And it's not as uncommon as you would think. So the girl who said that was probably telling the truth.
(Rating: 5) yeah but the girl made it seem like she came back as a ghost not all the way back to life!