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"Though its been a while now
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But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
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im almost never jealous or suspicious or paranoid, but for some reason, I don't want my girlfriend to drink when she's at a party without me. we live like 2 hours apart, and i only get to see her every other weekend. is this an irrational fear? i trust her completely at all other times, and it's not that i dont trust her, but i'm just worried that if she's too drunk, some guy will take advantage of her. idk why I'm thinking that but I just am. I know i can't control her or make her not drink, but is there anything I can do?
I can totally understand your paranoia on this since it was the same with my ex as well. She had done a lot of bad things after drinking too much (which she had told me all about) so I never did like the idea of her drinking when she was out (especially since all her friends were drug addicts who wouldn't look after her and instead sit in a corner high).
It's something that does happen so your paranoia/fear that you have is not completely unwarrented since it's common knowledge if you get wasted at a party you will have all the guys look at you as an easy target. It's a fact. I think given that you can't really control what she does when she is out and such the best you can do is explain to her why you feel the way you do about her drinking when out Obviously if she has friends she can rely on to help her incase something does happen then it's a good thing but I myself know a lot of incidents where friends were there but no one stepped in to do anything because they quite frankly just assumed it was what their friend wanted or trying to stop her they got told, 'what i do is none your business...' etc, etc, etc. It can put the friends in an awkward position too.
The best you can do though is talk to her. If worse comes to worse just call her to check up on her if/when she might be out drinking to make sure she has gotten home safely and such. That way you can be rest assured she's safe and it won't come across as you being controlling.
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thank you so much
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