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I sometimes take long breaks from the site. I'm more than happy to answer anyone's questions, but just make sure they're not too time sensitive. :)

Facts about me:
*happy
*employed
*married
*large extended family
*bisexual
*advanced college degree
*no kids (yet)

advice

When a guy tells you "I love you so much, it hurts."


what does that meann!?!

You know how when you are really happy and laughing a lot that sometimes your face starts to hurt from smiling so much? It's a big irony that being so happy can actually cause you pain. In this particular case, the guy loves you so much that he can't think of good enough words to describe it. It's not something he came up with on its own, it's a common saying, but it's very meaningful. His feelings relate to the example above because after spending time with you and then not being able to see you for awhile, he starts to hurt. So, the way he feels about you doesn't hurt, not being with you and missing you is what hurts. It's definitely a good thing for someone to say to you. :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
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