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My boyfriend & I had sex on friday. Thing is, he didn't put on a condom at first for like maybe the first minute and then he put one on. We've had sex about 3 times before that this month, all with a condom. I have no way of getting the morning after pill because I'm 17 and all my friends that are 18 are all busy now. I know I shouldn't have waited till the last minute but I wasn't worried and now I am quite worried and panicking. Should I even bother taking it? You have to take two, one lets say I take now and the next pill 12 hours later... which would be after the timerange of the effectiveness of the pill anyway? What are the chances because I'm supposed to get my period at the end of this month?
Thanks so much.
There are a LOT of ways to get to a doctor over something as serious as this. There are people you can trust. So never ever say that you can't and please always do when necessary. Better to be a little embarrassed or inconvenience someone for a little while than get pregnant at age 17 right?
I know this answer is too late, but for the future, you don't have to be 18 to get a day after pill!!! Sure, you do if you try to buy it over the counter, but you can get it from a clinic or a doctor. It's very important that you do this when you need to. Any emergency room or health clinic should be able to help you. The reason for all of this is because morning after pills are kind of dangerous. They're full of a ton of hormones in order to keep you from getting pregnant and if you have an unhealthy heart they could give you a heart attack! If you're over 18, you're an adult and can decide whether to take that risk yourself without a doctor's opinion. If you are under 18, you just have to have a talk with a doctor and the doctor will ask you about your family's history of heart attacks and stuff. Then the doctor will let you purchase the pill. It's a hassle, but worth it if you are ever in this situation again! All that said, do not put yourself in this situation again. Your boyfriend obviously didn't take the responsibility to protect the two of you so you need to do that from now on. Never have sex with him until he has a condom on. Buy it yourself and put it on him yourself if necessary! Good luck. :)
(Rating: 5) thx..yep i just had no way of getting to a doc but my friend got it for me so it should be all good now. thx angain.