Erinn_the_bamf's advice column

13/f

I've been dating this guy for sometime now. It was an internet relationship, but i didnt care. He was sweet and made me feel so much better about myself in so many ways. We used to say to tell each other that we loved each other everytime we talked. But recently i he wasnt on for a while. I kept on loving him. There was a place to put if you had a special person, so I put his picture on there saying that i always will love him. When he got back on he said he didnt love me anymore. I was crushed and we've been talking about it. Now he is saying that he isnt the same type of guy and that i should judt forget about him, and he doesnt get why i still love him. the question is, why all of the sudden does he not love me? Is it because the natural male instince to run when a woman says she loves a guy?

This isn't what you want to hear. So if you want a sugarcoated answer, look away.

You are thirteen years old, and you are having an internet relationship. This guy can be anybody. He can lie and say anything. It's the internet: no one knows who you are. His real personality could be 100% different than who he is online. Furthermore, since you are so young, he probably felt that he could take advantage of you.

Why doesn't he love you anymore? Because he realized that you can't base a relationship off of who someone is online. You need to know them in person to be sure you can trust and love them.

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(Rating: 5) i understand.........i know im young. but i know the feeling of love. its special. ive only felt it twice. but i cant seem to hold onto them. i dont know who to trust with my heart anymore.

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