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I know this question probably has been asked millions of times beforee....but honestly, without a boyfriend, I feel 100% incomplete and lonely. Even friends don't help with this horrible lonely feeling.

15/f I've never had a boyfriend. And this is a bit strange, because when I'm at school...I have no problem talking to guys at all! But when I see younger people than me with boyfriends...well, it just kind of makes me feel sad and unwanted in a way...I mean, I'm not ugly...I get good grades...I'm not overweight or anything...Do boyfriends necessarily have to come from a group of friends or something?

o_o. Thank you so much in advance.

Well, I'm almost certain hearing that the last user was 12 when she had her first boyfriend didn't make you feel better. But that's aside the point.

Everyone finds love at a different age. Some people are much older than you before they get their first boyfriend. Yes, some are younger too. However, you can't go looking for a relationship. You have to let it find you.

As corny as that sounds, lately, I believe it's true. The less you think about finding a man, the more likely it is he will pop out of the blue. Just make sure you have confidence in yourself, and a guy will be sure to notice. Guys love it when a girl loves who she is!

And no, boyfriends don't have to come from a group of friends. Join new clubs, meet all kinds of new people, and eventually you'll find a guy that you're attracted to.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. Yeah, this helps...don't go looking for one, one will come to you, hah. I get it =]

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