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how do you get a boyfriend? :(


Question Posted Monday October 8 2007, 3:02 pm

I know this question probably has been asked millions of times beforee....but honestly, without a boyfriend, I feel 100% incomplete and lonely. Even friends don't help with this horrible lonely feeling.

15/f I've never had a boyfriend. And this is a bit strange, because when I'm at school...I have no problem talking to guys at all! But when I see younger people than me with boyfriends...well, it just kind of makes me feel sad and unwanted in a way...I mean, I'm not ugly...I get good grades...I'm not overweight or anything...Do boyfriends necessarily have to come from a group of friends or something?

o_o. Thank you so much in advance.


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orphans answered Tuesday October 9 2007, 11:54 pm:
I'm 16, and haven't had one.
Girls think I'm sweet,
I look average, not good not bad.
But I never get the girls I want, either none at all, or ones who are... um, well you know =/

I'm not shallow, and I love girls personalities more than their looks, its just a lot more fun to hang out with ones who are interesting to talk to, than ones to look at.

Your not alone, if that helps at all
:O

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday October 8 2007, 9:00 pm:
Well, I'm almost certain hearing that the last user was 12 when she had her first boyfriend didn't make you feel better. But that's aside the point.

Everyone finds love at a different age. Some people are much older than you before they get their first boyfriend. Yes, some are younger too. However, you can't go looking for a relationship. You have to let it find you.

As corny as that sounds, lately, I believe it's true. The less you think about finding a man, the more likely it is he will pop out of the blue. Just make sure you have confidence in yourself, and a guy will be sure to notice. Guys love it when a girl loves who she is!

And no, boyfriends don't have to come from a group of friends. Join new clubs, meet all kinds of new people, and eventually you'll find a guy that you're attracted to.

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