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friendship or relationship
I met a boy three years ago and the past two years we have been considerably close. Over the past year we've been inseparable but we are stictly friends. He is my best friend. I tell him everything and when im sad or sick he always knows how to cheer me up. We are there for eachother everytime we need something and thats why i find our friendship so speical. But what i really dont understand is that we fight EVERYDAY over the littlest stupid things possible. For instance we are going to be 18 years old in the next couple months and younger girls around the age of 14 do not leave him alone and sometimes i think he might even like them and it aggervates me, i think im paranoyed though cuz i feel like maybe hes not interested. or if he hangs all over another girl in front of me. or if he pays more attention to another girl than me. i realize this is jealousy but i havent figured out why. i could never picture myself being in a relationship with him because we are so close when i think about it, i wouldnt want to ruin such a good friendship and hes not my type in that sense. but i think that the reason it makes me so mad is because i dont want someone else replacing me. I dont want him to date someone because then i feel like i'll only be second best when i really became first. I need someone else's opinion..
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You kinda have a few options.
You can either realize you don't like him, and maybe your feelings of jealousy are just feelings of abadonment. Since he's your best friend, you don't want him to drop you for just some girl.
Or
If you realize you do have some feelings for him, tell him. Because he's your best friend, you know you'll have a more positive reaction than if it were someone else. Plus you'll be able to get it off your chest. If he likes you back, then you are good to go! If he doesn't feel the same way, then atleast you know he'll break it to you gently. He's your best friend, and the last thing he wants to do is hurt you in anyway.
I really hope that helps. :)
Sincerely,
Lou
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I think it sounds like thats the problem you dont want to be replaced.
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