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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
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WEll this guy liked me last year, and then we broke up because he didn't have time to have a girlfriend (his words) and then we started hooking up a lot right before summer and then when summer came he was like i don't want a girlfriend but I still want to hang out with you and I was SO angry because I don't just hook up with guys for nothing. Only when I like them. so i didn't talk to him during the summer. When school came he asked me why and I was like because i don't want to be the girl you just hook up with. and he's like ohh i guess you're right.. but I still like him and I don't know what to do because I really don't like him sometimes and I know that if we go out it will end up bad like the last time but I Like him!! I don't know what to DOOOOO!
Hi.
I think the thing you need to ask yourself here is what's best for YOU. I know you like the guy but in liking him is it worth it in the long term, when you know it'll just end up badly anyway?
I'm not sure exactly what you refer to when you say hook up but (hook up over here where I am simply just means hanging out together and that's it but I get the impression when you say it, it means a lot more than just hanging out together and stuff. If this is the case then I would say to do what you already know is the smartest thing to do and forget him. If he's not willing to go at it on a full relationship already then he probably never will, more so because he's getting everything he needs already from you minus the complications of a full out relationship. And you've already made it clear that kind of thing is not what you go for.
To be honest I think you should just forget about this guy and move on. I'm not saying forget about how you feel about him because that can only happen with time. But it's unfair on yourself to wait around on a guy that seems to just be using you when he deems it convenient for him. Trust me on this, you WILL find someone better even if you have your doubts at the moment about that. :]
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thank you soo much!!
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