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hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a sis " they told me because one time i was standing with him and i told him that i take you as a close sister and he told me same here " that acually didnt make me angry it made me sad that i kno he probably doesnt like me more than a sister.. or a friend.. but it made me feel good that he cared about me and took me real close to him as a sister.. i just dont know what to do.. people are always tellin me get over the guy before your get hurt again and i really do! wanna get over him.. but i just cant.. its to hard.. its not like i can get over somone like that so quickly
what do i do??
Okay. The way that I always get over guys is in a routine. You choose ONE DAY and only 1 day, to be your "sob/weep/be depressed over" day. That means, that for one day (because guys don't deserve to be upset over for more than one day.. they're just boys, remember?) you listen to breakup songs and eat chocolate ice cream right out of the container and all the stuff that people do to get over guys. Then, you must go out with your friends and make sure he's not there, and party and have a great time! Also, focus on your friends for now, and I'm telling you the moment you stop looking for or chasing a guy, they come right to you. But for now, mourn for only one day, then party and have fun!
♥, lena
(Rating: 5) Hahah!!i love that lol ima do it!!
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