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I sometimes take long breaks from the site. I'm more than happy to answer anyone's questions, but just make sure they're not too time sensitive. :)

Facts about me:
*happy
*employed
*married
*large extended family
*bisexual
*advanced college degree
*no kids (yet)

advice

Is it better to have the guy you love for just one night, or not at all?

That's pretty much the choice I have to make. I can either be with him for one night, or never be with him.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall for him more and then just have to give him up, but I don't want to regret not being with him, even if only for a night.

He doesn't do exclusive relationships.

Do NOT get with this guy. He sounds like a total creep. Nobody "doesn't do exclusive relationships" unless they're a complete jerk. It is not worth it. You won't regret not getting with this guy, but you will most definitely regret it if you do. He's not worth it in any regard. You don't want to just have sex with him, you want a relationship. Just having sex will only make things worse. Sex is pointless without a relationship and will only make you want one more. Don't even consider getting with him. Good luck.

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