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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)
Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)
I'm always willing to listen/lend a helping hand. Inbox me and I will be sure to get to you as soon as I can.
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Ok heres the thing I am almost eighteen and Im so shy that I can hardly or never have been able to talk to a guy without hittin a beamer basically. This is due to embarrassment for them incase anyone sees them talkin to a girl that looks like me.
To describe me I have a button nose, I am big boned my hair never stays straight long and I hate myself infact the only thing I like about myself is my eyes but guys dont fall for eyes do they?
I know this will prob sound sad to most but I need tips any tips you can give on how to be a little less shy and insecure.
Thanks for any help you can give.
soz its long.
lxx
In order to be less shy and insecure, you have to be more confident. From what I can tell, you are not confident in yourself. I know this is so cliche, but everyone is beautiful in their own way. Guys do fall for eyes :)..and button noses aren't bad! Use a straightener for your hair..wear a little makeup (but not too much..you don't want to look like a clown!) Smile more :) Smiling really makes a difference in the way people perceive you. Be confident in yourself. Love yourself..because right now, you don't sound like you love yourself. I know it's not as easy as it sounds..but grow to love yourself. No one wants a negative, person that hates themselves.
Here's a website for makeup tips: http://www.makeuptips.org/
Honestly, just learn to be happy with yourself because bitterness is ugly. I'm not saying you're bitter, but you could turn into a bitter person if you keep feeling this hatred for yourself. I'm sure you are not as "ugly" as you make yourself out to be. I bet I could find another thing besides your eyes that are just as gorgeous. :)
Once you achieve self-confidence, you will overcome that shy quality (which isn't always a bad thing!) Trust me, self-confidence is everything.
(Rating: 4) thx will try out your web site.
lxx