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WARNING: long and maybe confusing :'(

okay well i have this friend. lets call him bob. and then i have this other friend so lets call her sally.

well me and bob used to be really great friends. and he used to tell e everything. but for some reason hes only been talking to sally.
and bobs friend ets say billy sent a comment on myspace saying
"hey brittney. can you call sally and tell her that bob says he loves her and shes probally never going to see him again"
and so now im scared soo bad... hes attempted suicide.. and he has a bad temper. and i dont know what to do.. ive called him sooo many times... :'(

please i need some advice

UPDATED ANSWER:

You have to do whatever it takes to contact him. Whether it be traveling six hours, spending hours and hours trying to find out his cell phone number, .etc.

Do whatever it takes, because you could most likely be saving his life...



If you really care for Bob then you MUST talk to him in person, and bring some other people along that care for him as well, such as family, friends, co-workers, .etc.

He must know that people care for him and don't want him to do anything stupid, because there are gonna be a lot of people that will be very sad if he does commit suicide.

You must also tell him that suicide does not solve anything. It only makes the people that love and care for him suffer because of something stupid that he did, when he could've gotten help from a psychologist or a counselor.

He really does need help if he continues to think these thoughts and whatnot.

If you really care for him, please contact a suicide hotline, or refer him to the hotline, such as these:

http://www.hopeline.com/
http://suicidehotlines.com/

If you need anymore help, just ask.

-Mariah-

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(Rating: 5) thanks... but theres one problem... during the summer hes 6 hours away.. and no one can get a hold of him... and he got a new cell he hasnt told anyone... and so no one knows if hes dead
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