BIOGRAPHY:
My name is Carrie, and I just recently turned 25. I've been told that I give excellent advice, so I created this column last year with the intention of helping as many people as possible. Although I do believe I succeeded, I ultimately turned my back on this column when I discovered just how cruel and thankless some people can be. Almost one year later a lot has changed. I've gained a whole new perspective on life and the world around me. I'm much more positive, sympathetic, and willing to listen when people truly need help. So now I've decided to come back and focus my attention on the individuals who are truly in need of advice.
ADVICE:
I'm very genuine when it comes to giving advice. I try to be sympathetic to the person asking the question, but I don't ever sugar coat things. I've learned quickly that many people who ask for help don't really want advice - they want someone who will say what they want to hear. Sorry, but you're not going to get that with me. I'm not here to make friends (if a friendship happens though, yay for me!). You'll always get the truth from me whether you like it or not. While the truth may sting just a bit to begin with, it will absolutely set you free in the long run. If you want to be lied to, please seek advice from somebody else.
CONTACT INFO:
If you like my advice and have additional questions for me, click on the link right underneath this profile that says "Ask Me A Question." If you leave your follow-up question for me in my feedback, I have no way of replying to it. Please use the link. Also, I have an e-mail address where people can get in touch with me if they need to. Feel free to use it.
IMPORTANT:
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ABOUT ME:
Here are some facts about me. I like pop music (especially Madonna). I like horror movies (especially Scream). I like to chat (on MSN). I love to write (poetry, screenplays, short stories). I love shopping (Best Buy). I'm a gamer (I'm better than a guy - Xbox 360 all the way). I have a MySpace (Click "Ask Carrie" for the link). I love my doggies (I have 2). I'm not a bitch (...well, sometimes). I love to laugh (and sometimes I pee a little when I do). It happens.
Website: Ask Carrie
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Location: South Carolina
Occupation: What's that?
Age: 25
Member Since: June 10, 2007
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User: lost_3v rytim3
Why do I have to talk to her? I mean why can’t she step up and tell me how she feels why I have to. To tell you this I am moving next December out of state and I was not planning to have a relationship at the moment (cause I am moving) I do want to be with her but I know I am not ready for a relationship with a women. (She will be my first PLUS she is my best friend) I want to know WHO I am bt the other half want me to wait for her because I don’t want to see her with some one else. But I can’t stop that. I forgot that in the chat room she had said to me “I guess time will tell for the both of us” what does that mean?
(wait and see???)
When move I know I will miss her very much and I am trying to find her out but I can’t because SHE can’t find out what she wants.
What I think what is going on in Jane’s head is that she is surprised about my feelings to her also flattered. Curious on what it will be like going out with her best friend who is the same sex as she is. And wonders what others (friends and family) might think of it.
That’s what I think what she is thinking about.
Well I don’t know I really wish for her the best and I wish I can find out how to fix my confusing love life.
I am glad you are reading my replies and questions you’re the first person I know who gave me good advice.
And I will be glad to try to help you out if you have troubles.
Thanx again.
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Hey there. :)
In my last advice to you, I suggested that you ask her because it's you who's suffering with wanting her and uncertainty. It's you who deserves answers and a chance to pursue those feelings or to let them go. It's obvious to me that your feelings for her are strong and unending.
As someone who's familiar with the feeling of wanting someone she cannot have, I know what it's like to have more questions than answers. It isn't always easy to get the answers from the person you like, so if that's the case you have to look within and provide your own answers.
How will you handle this? How will you move on? When will you let go? When will you take back control of your life? If she can't provide the answers you need, you have to be the one to finish this. You deserve peace and a resolution to this situation once and for all.
And thank you for the offer of giving me advice. If I ever need advice, I will definitely come to you. I wish you well.
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