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Question Posted Monday July 23 2007, 1:51 am



User: lost_3v rytim3
Why do I have to talk to her? I mean why can’t she step up and tell me how she feels why I have to. To tell you this I am moving next December out of state and I was not planning to have a relationship at the moment (cause I am moving) I do want to be with her but I know I am not ready for a relationship with a women. (She will be my first PLUS she is my best friend) I want to know WHO I am bt the other half want me to wait for her because I don’t want to see her with some one else. But I can’t stop that. I forgot that in the chat room she had said to me “I guess time will tell for the both of us” what does that mean?
(wait and see???)

When move I know I will miss her very much and I am trying to find her out but I can’t because SHE can’t find out what she wants.
What I think what is going on in Jane’s head is that she is surprised about my feelings to her also flattered. Curious on what it will be like going out with her best friend who is the same sex as she is. And wonders what others (friends and family) might think of it.

That’s what I think what she is thinking about.
Well I don’t know I really wish for her the best and I wish I can find out how to fix my confusing love life.

I am glad you are reading my replies and questions you’re the first person I know who gave me good advice.
And I will be glad to try to help you out if you have troubles.

Thanx again.




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soundslikepink answered Tuesday July 31 2007, 6:32 am:
Hey there. :)

In my last advice to you, I suggested that you ask her because it's you who's suffering with wanting her and uncertainty. It's you who deserves answers and a chance to pursue those feelings or to let them go. It's obvious to me that your feelings for her are strong and unending.

As someone who's familiar with the feeling of wanting someone she cannot have, I know what it's like to have more questions than answers. It isn't always easy to get the answers from the person you like, so if that's the case you have to look within and provide your own answers.

How will you handle this? How will you move on? When will you let go? When will you take back control of your life? If she can't provide the answers you need, you have to be the one to finish this. You deserve peace and a resolution to this situation once and for all.

And thank you for the offer of giving me advice. If I ever need advice, I will definitely come to you. I wish you well.

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