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So there's this guy, Harley, at my summer skool program. I hate him so much I could just... never mind. Anyways, he's in all of classes. I hate him because he's the only guy whose ever actually touched me. In 6th grade at a party we were roller skating. Well, he was knocking everybody down. Out of all the kids there, I was the only one he grabbed around the waist and spun around and hit my head on the concret floor, HARD. Well, every since then, I've hated him.I don't know if I like him. I don't know if he lieks me. Today at school, I wore really short shorts for the first time. I was sitting in class when I felt like somebody was watching me. I peered over and saw harley looking at my thigh. He was staring at it. I got really uncomferable. I think he might like me, but I think I might like him because he's cute, but he's been to juvy 6 times. I don't wanna like him. I like hating him. I know, that sounds weird, but hey. Any advice will help! Thanx!
UPDATED ANSWER: Tell him that you're sorry that you said those things to his friend, and that, looking back at what you did, you know that it was wrong and that you'd like to start from scratch.
If he forgives you, then I think you should give this guy a shot. If he doesn't forgive you, then you should move on; he's a waste of time if he doesn't trust you.
Best Regards,
Mariah
I would be a little worried if he went to juvy 6 times; that's a little scary.
If you really like him, I'd ask him out, but be warned that since he's had several run-ins with the law, it might be a good idea to just be friends for a little bit first, so that you can see the real side of him to see if he's a good person on the inside, and see if you really like him.
Just ask him if he'd like to be friends. Maybe he needs a friend that will show him the right path in life so that he can do good from now on.
If you need anymore help, just ask. :)
Best Regards,
Mariah
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! And I would like to be friends with him first too, but... I went to skool today and he ripped up his knee... Completely and he just sat there like it was a small mosquito bite. And I think he hates me after I dated his friend and called his friend a few names. He's protective of his friends... Could you give me advice on what to do on this, please? Thank you! :D