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Theres this one girl, at my school who is amazinnggg, she is like sooo popular, and so pretty, i mean shes absoulty gorgeous, and shes so nice, unlike all of her friends, but still. and were kinda friends, kinda. but shes just soo nice. i mean for her birthday, her mom bought her all this stuff, and then gave her like 5000 dollars, and she went to the mall and like bought all these clothes, and gave them to the poor! shes always thinking of others, and she just so sweet! i just want to be just like her. i mean honestly, i dont know how she can be the way she is. i mean shes like the richest girl in our town, and she doesnt act like it at all, shes always thinking of others. and shes really smart, and i mean, i just want to be like her. how can i? shes like a freaking saint, she doesnt talk behind anyones back, shes not stuck up, bbut thne yet she has so much confidence in herself in everything she does.
I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE HER.
how?
Well to start with you dhould do what she does - which is be herself. You cant be someone else. That wouldn't really be you that would just be a fake. Being nice to people, respecting people, wanting to help... these things are all things we all choose to do just like she has chosen to do. If you want to do things like that then by all means do so but don't do it because you want to copy her or be like her - do it because it's what YOU want to do. As for confidence, that comes with time. If you lack confidence you just have to be more sure of yourself. I mean everyone fails at something or another (it may seem she's perfect but no-one is ever that perfect). Don't waste your time trying to be like someone else, honestly. I mean the last thing you want is people seeing you and saying, "oh wow! She's just like blah blah." No, what you want is them to say wow aren't you a really nice person and someone who's caring etc, etc. Why would you want people to say you're like someone else when you can be your own person?
"Popularity, next to virtue and wisdom, ought to be aimed at; for it is the dictate of wisdom, and is necessary to the practice of virtue inmost."
--John Adams.
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i dont want to copy her. i just want to strive to be a more better person. thats what i meant. i mean, i dont know, i figured everyone always wanted to be a nice caring person. not a mean selfish brat.
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