About ammo

"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^
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Me and this guy have been back and forth, I can't never know for sure if he likes me or not.
I told him I like him, but he never said anything back to me. But he always talks to me; always txt me; always emails me.......
We went out one night, and both got drunk.
He told me how beautiful I am, and he always loves me(yes, love is the word he used), and then he kissed me. (for really long time.....)
The next day he called and asked me what did he say the night before..........(he only remember he made up with me, but doesn't remember what he said to me!!)
Then he asked me out again for movie, but barely talked to me the whole time when we were out. I asked him why did he kiss me the first place (the night we were both drunk), he said "it just happened."
WHAT?!! I'm confused!! Does he like me or just try to get into my pants?!! Help!!
Although I agree with the other two posters about how you may not just be a conquest or a person whos pants he is trying to get into I will say I'm not so sure about the whole liking you part. From what you have described and how he has been acting (the part of him not being able to remember is a lot of rubbish - he remembers all of it) I think he's jus confused about what he actually wants with you. He's probably unsure of commitment or just how he exactly feels about you which is why it took him being drunk to make a move on you and say what he had said. When he sobered up the next day he was able to say he was just drunk and he didn't know what he did or what was said so you don't push the issue. I've known the exact same thing to happen before to friends (friends on both sides of the wall so to speak). I think the best thing to do is give him some time to sort out what it is he wants but not to push things too much since the last thing you want to do is seem to be forcing him into deciding. However, that said, you shouldn't have toput up with his drunken advances only for him to say the next day 'it just happen' - you deserve to know where you stand with him. So I will say if it happens again then ask him for an answer because you deserve that. :]
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Thank you!!
Do you really think he remembered everything he said?
Now I'm just not going to do or say anything to him until he wants to make the next move. (I actually felt pretty stupid after he said "it just happened".) I guess I do like him a lot, but don't want to make a fool of myself after all that.
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