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How can I keep my cool when dealing with a rude coworker? (link)
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So many people go through this same situation. We aren't always going to like everyone and like how they treat us. In a work environment and dealing with a rude coworker, the best thing you can do is to keep your distance. In addition, keep the relationship strictly professional. Sometimes it's hard not to lash out a comment back when they are rude to us, but that just allows the coworker to futher his rudeness. If you don't respond and ignore it, it decreases and then eventually stops. Also, when you have to interact with him, only discuss work related issues. I know sometimes it is our common nature to try to get on the rude coworker's "good side" so the habits will quit, but really, if you show them you don't have that kind of relationship, they won't try. And lastly, but most importantly, if the rudeness continues PLEASE speak up. First, sternly let your coworker know you don't like their ways and would like it to stop. If you have already done so or don't find improvement then take further action. I know it will seem like tattle tailing, but these are the kinds of issues that need to be brought to management's attention. I suggest going to your group's boss or manager before directly doing to HR, but if your boss doesn't do anything, then proceed to tell HR. For instance, the coworker's rude ways could be direct HR and Ethics violations. You have a right to speak up. Also, make sure to say if you are at fault as well. For example, if you make rude comments back, tell them "I'll be the first to say I say them right back, but I feel like it's gotten to a point that's enough..." Best of luck. :)
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Rating: 5
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Thank you so much for your answer. I don't want
to stoop to their level, I don't want to just
live with it either! Thank you again.
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