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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
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REALLY LONG, AND IM SORRY..
but i had to tell the whole story so you would understand it.
16/f
At the end of my freshman year I became friends with this girl Katelyn. Me and Katelyn became really close, and she was my BEST friend. We Spent everyday in the summer together!!
I always had a boyfriend, Katelyn never had a real relationship.
So during the summer I was dating a kid name Bradley. He was great, and he always took me and Katelyn to the movies(of course katelyn paid her way) But I wasnt allowed to go, so i had to sneek. And I ALWAYS thought she liked that i took her along.
So comes 10th grade and we start out close, best friends, nothing is wrong. Then I start dating Marcus, I REALLY Liked Marcus, so I didnt sneek to the movies or anything with him. So I spent everyday with him(bad move, i know) So me and Katelyn start to loose our closeness. (i;m still with Marcus) So come Feb. we get into a BIG fight. Mainly bc i would sit with her at lunch, but she wouldnt say one word to me the whole time.(bc she got other friends, which are the fakest people in my school.) So we got into a fight.
Now I was in class with her old best friend. (Long story sort, Betty was a hoe our freshman year and said some guy raped her, when he really didnt. And it was at katelyn's party. ) So Im in calss with her ALL year. So when me and katelyn get into a fight, i start talking to Betty more. And I start saying things about Katelyn that at the time i would thing to myself and say "shouldnt say that" but Katelyn was my main friend, and I didnt have one after her. And I wanted a friend sooo bad. So i would talk about Katelyn behind her back(fake i know)
But now she wants to be friends again. I want to so baly bc i miss her soo much. She was like a sister to me. But i dont want to go back to school and people think Im fake and all bc of the things I said this/last year.
What should I do? Be friends with her again and not care what people say or think bc i have my best friend back.
Or not be friends with her bc of the things I said??
Please help me!.. =[
Hmm, quite a mess really but I think the best thing to do is if you're starting fresh with your friend it's to make sure the air is compltely clear between you both. So that means tell her you're sorry about things you sometimes said but also make sure you do tell her you said them out of anger or because you were upset she and you were no longer talking. Make sure she knows you've missed her and TELL her you've always thought of her as a sister. SHe won't know unless you do. Who cares what anyone thinks of you back at school (to say you're a fake is like saying you can't change your mind about who you like and who you don't - very pathetic and narrow minded). I mean ask yourself what's more important to you - having your friend back so you can both try build your friendships up again or what people at your school will say? People always talk it's no big deal (I guess in a way it's karma since people will now be talking about you in the same way you did about your friend).
Also, I know you said it was a bad idea but I'll say it anyway. Spending every free moment with your boyfriend/girlfriend is never a good idea. You should always balance out time with your partner as well as time with friends. Relationships are not a guarantee so if after you ditch all your friends and then your partner walks you're going to be left with no one.
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Thank You So Much.Your Right, I Dont Care What Others Will Say, I Just Want My Friend Back.
My boyfriend Is Like My Best Friend Tho. But We Are Slowly Starting To Hang Out With Our Friends Again. I Mean Hes Going To College This Year And I Cant Always Have Him With Me. Thank You! =]
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