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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.
My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.
I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.
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ok this is gonna be kinda long.. but i would really appreciate some advice on this =) okay so basically i went out w/ this guy for like a year.. then i broke up w/ him for a few reasons. and he kinda knew that i liked one of his best friends a little but that was only for like a few days. and i kinda just wanted to be single. andd my friends didnt really like him so i got pressured from them too. so yeah i did it. and i was really mean to him after. like i would just bitch at him for no reason.. i guess i did it because 1. i still liked him but i was like trying to push him away 2. he got over it pretty quickly..probably b/c i had done this a few other times 3. his friends were bothering me 4. he found a new girl like a week later (they werent going out though). yeah so anyways i was pretty much a bitch to him and i dont think i was the best gf either. and it kinda sucks that it took all this to realize that but i know its a lot to ask but i just want to be friends w/ him b/c like when you go out w/ someone for like a year you get kinda close w/ them and then its like a big loss in your life when theyre just gone. but the problem is he doesnt want to talk until the end of the summer.. and by then i dont think we will ever talk againn soo yeah what should i do? like i understand i was such a bitch to him but i apologized and some of the reasons were his fault. what should i do? sry its so long xoxo
The truth of the matter is there's not really much you can do. If you have already apologized to him and explained yourself the rest all falls on to him and for him to make a decision. If he was the one who said to wait till after summer then that's all you can really do. Thing is you don't want to keep pestering him about it either because this might do nothing but push him away instead. So all you can really do is wait it out until he decides what he wants to do. Did you also make it clear that you want him as a friend and are not asking for him back? From what you said it did sound like you're just wanting to be friends again and that's it and as long as he knows that it's good. I only say this because it's strange he has opted to tell you his answer after the summer and the only real reasoning I can come up for that is that he wants to remain single over the summer so he's free to do as he pleases and then afterwards he can mend things with you. If this is the case then I think it's unfair for you to be putting your life on hold just for his convenience.
If it's just to start talking as friends again though then I'm afraid all you can do is wit it out. :[
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thanks good point about the single thing. i dont wanna bother him again but he does know that i still like him a little.. even though i like another guy too
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