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14/f.
I like this guy, on a scale of 1-10 i like him about a 7 or 8. We'll call him "ben". K, i have NO IDEA how he feels about me. I'm a terrible flirter, I'm not exactly pretty, but there was a myspace bulletin about telling the person who posted it exactly what you felt. I tried to be as honest as I could manage without absolutely embarrassing myself. So I said:
"i think you're funny, cool, cute, and i think you're musically intelligent.
uhm, i think you're absolutely amazing.
and i think you think i'm a total freak now,
and you're going to laugh at this."
So I reposted the bulletin that way he would reply, and he did :]
he said "well... i think ur...
hilarious
cute
and.....the best writer i know:]"
idk if he was saying "cute" to be nice and not make me feel bad, or if he actually thinks i'm cute?
&& when I posted a pic of my new hair color [i got pink highlights] he said "cute:]"
so i don't know if i'm just supposed to sit back & kind of let him chase me, and play hard to get, or ask him out, or at least tell him i really like him. ick, help? thanks. (link)
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Playing hard to get with someone you don't talk to or see often is kind of a risky move. He could take it as a sign that you don't like him at all if you kind of brush him off and play hot and cold.
You should just tell him that you like him and would like to get to know him better. Saying you'd like to get to know him better is kind of a non-pressuring way of asking him out. But since you're not technically asking him out, if he likes you back, he should ask you out, unless he's shy of course, and in which case you should just ask him to hang out this weekend.
Hope this helps.
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