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I have the best husband in the world i love him so much.....but there is one BIG problem he abuses me....he hits slaps pulls my hair elbows me pushes me....but there is another problem i love him to much to leave him i love him so much so leaving him is not an option....what should i do?
Broken hearted and torn (link)
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I know you don't want to leave your husband, but honey, your love for him is not going to stop him from hurting you.
If you stay with him, he is just going to keep doing this to you because he knows there are no consequences for his actions. He needs to know that if he keeps abusing you, something is going to happen that he isn't going to like.
I know that after he does this, he probably says he's sorry and pampers you for a while and says he will never hurt you again. But we both know that he WILL do it again no matter how many times he says he won't. He'll be frustrated from a day of work and feel like beating the crap out of his boss. But he can't because he doesn't want to be fired, but of course, he knows that he can hit you. Because you've never tried to stop him.
Trust me, abuse is not love. You don't hurt the people you love like that continuously.
If you want to stay with him, you need to talk to him about maybe attending counseling or an anger management class or you won't be able to stay with him. If it doesn't work when you're the only one telling him, stage an intervention.
If he doesn't get help, one day he could take it too far and then you won't have to worry about whether or not you should leave him.
I'm telling you, getting him help will help you too. It will save your life, and your kids if you have any.
Please don't let him continue to abuse you. If you're scared and anxious whenever you're with your husband, you can never be truly happy with him because you'll always be worrying about the next time he's going to hit you. Am I going to be able to cover it up? Will my friends notice? Will he put me in the hospital, again?
You need to start a kickboxing or karate or any self defense class so you can defend yourself if ever the situation gets out of hand.
Do this for you.
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I know.....thanks for the advice i know exactly what im gonna do
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