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this is kind-of long, sorry. :/

me and my boyfriend jordan have been going out since may 1, and as of now, we've only held hands and hugged, not kissed or anything. but we went to this school dance on friday, and they played our song [ bless the broken road, rascal flatts (: ], and after they played it, he looked at me and went in to kiss me, and the moment seemed perfect and such, but i turned away. he said it got him confused becaus he thought it was the right moment, but i told him i just felt like it was too soon. so just a few minutes ago he told me he wants to kiss me tomorrow after school, but i don't know what to do, because i don't think we've been going out long enough.
so basically, have we been going out long enough for us to kiss?? and please don't say it's up to me, or that it's whenever it feels right, because i honestly don't know.

so is less than three weeks long enough to kiss?
and we're going to the movies on friday, so i know he'll want to kiss me and maybe even make out.

thanks in advance..

i know you don't want to here this, but it really is up to you. if you don't feel ready, then don't let him rush you.

your boyfriend obviously thinks its not too soon and is ready. but since you turned away, you must not be ready.

you can't let your boyfriend pressure you into kissing him.

in my opion, its a little early, but i wouldn't shock me if you did kiss at only 3 weeks. i know people who have dated for 4 monthes and still haven't kissed. this just goes to show how much they really care for each other since they can keep their relationship strong without kissing.

and in my opinion i defintiely don't think you should make out with him at the movies since you weren't even ready for just a kiss.

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