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is it too soon to kiss?
14/f
this is kind-of long, sorry. :/
me and my boyfriend jordan have been going out since may 1, and as of now, we've only held hands and hugged, not kissed or anything. but we went to this school dance on friday, and they played our song [ bless the broken road, rascal flatts (: ], and after they played it, he looked at me and went in to kiss me, and the moment seemed perfect and such, but i turned away. he said it got him confused becaus he thought it was the right moment, but i told him i just felt like it was too soon. so just a few minutes ago he told me he wants to kiss me tomorrow after school, but i don't know what to do, because i don't think we've been going out long enough.
so basically, have we been going out long enough for us to kiss?? and please don't say it's up to me, or that it's whenever it feels right, because i honestly don't know.
so is less than three weeks long enough to kiss?
and we're going to the movies on friday, so i know he'll want to kiss me and maybe even make out.
thanks in advance..
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i would say just to wait until you feel your ready to kiss him. he might be ready, but guys and girls have different feelings and emotions about things. so just tell him that your not ready yet, and you want to wait. im sure he'll understand. just dont wait too long because he could think that your scared and that your not even ready to have a boyfriend. i hope this helps.
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hey i totally get what your saying, im 14/f.and my bf and i have been going out since april 20th.[soo not that longg] soo this past weekend.we went to the movies.he just put his arm around me[which is fine] .and he probably will do that on friday if u go to the movies.
then do w/e u want during the movie[like hold his hand or something]
then after the movies before you go home...hug him and give him a kiss on the cheek.thats the perfect way to say goodnight[if your not readyy to kiss him.] BUT if he stares into your eyes.then just kiss him...and it will leave them thinking all night=]
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if your not ready then dont do it. but i think maybe you should try it it wont hurt you. and the first kiss dont always have to be first the right kiss will be your first
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to me you just sound like youre not ready to kiss him and thats totally fine.
if hes confused just tell him that you arent ready to kiss him yet.
just tell him youll kiss him when the time is right.[[sorry i know you didnt want me to say that but its true]]
hope that helps =)
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i know you don't want to here this, but it really is up to you. if you don't feel ready, then don't let him rush you.
your boyfriend obviously thinks its not too soon and is ready. but since you turned away, you must not be ready.
you can't let your boyfriend pressure you into kissing him.
in my opion, its a little early, but i wouldn't shock me if you did kiss at only 3 weeks. i know people who have dated for 4 monthes and still haven't kissed. this just goes to show how much they really care for each other since they can keep their relationship strong without kissing.
and in my opinion i defintiely don't think you should make out with him at the movies since you weren't even ready for just a kiss.
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If you don't want to kiss him, tell him that. If you think it's too soon, then tell him. Don't do anything you don't wanna do. Anything you guys do is your choice.
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Honestly...it is up to you. I do not think it is too soon to kiss, however, just make sure you do not do anything you are not ready for.
Good luck.
-Teacup
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