I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
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ok so im dating my best friend she asked me out yesterday and ok well its nothing serious and its not public. im middle school most people are not ok with gay people yet so yea. the thing is i only said yes to her because well every guy shes ever liked has rejected her and i kinda felt bad. i dunno if she really likes me. she said she doesnt and that she just wants to make sure she is bi by dating a girl. okay but ive never had a girlfriend or boyfriend before and this is all new to me. somehow it doesnt feel right and i dont wanna end up hurting her. its the last thing i wanna do. maybe she does like me but is just covering it up so i dont wanna break up with her. ugh and well i just got over a guy friend - my other best friend- and he and i flirt around a lot, so she might get jealous? i dunno please someone anything works. im just so confused at this point. ahhh thanks. (link)
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I once did a similar thing with a guy I knew. He asked me out and he was a genuinely nice guy but never really dated before and he really liked me, so I said yes.
I went on ONE date with him because I worked out that far from being attracted to him, he actually kinda gave me the creeps.
My point is, most people would do this. It doesn't mean you're really a bad person, it just means your good intentions were a little misguided. This girl is probably thinking "Yay! A girl who wants to date me!" and has no idea what you're thinking.
You need to talk to her and let her down gently. Just explain to her that the relationship isn't working for you. It's not that you don't like her but you just feel like there's no chemistry. The spark isn't there and it's better to tell her now than to keep letting her believe something that isn't true.
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thanx yeah i told her yesterday and i guess she was okay with it. its so much better this way but now i feel a litttle awkward around her. oh well
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