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i'll make this short (13/f)
one of my guy friends (goes to a different school) and i are really close. we met in camp a few years ago and we were friends since. for the past 2 years i didn't go to camp with him, but we stayed in touch. now he admits to liking me, but i don't exactly feel the same way. i care about him a lot, and i think i'm afraid that it will ruin our close friendship. should i give it a go? or stay true to my feelings (i'm not even sure if i like him)?
help is highly appreciated.
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You should tell your friend that although you value him as a friend, you don't want to be anymore than that. Make sure you don't say something like "I like you, just not that way." He won't hear the part about not that way, he'll only hear the I like you part and you'll give him false hope. But make sure he knows you don't want to lose him. He may be a bit distant at first because of the rejection but if you keep acting the same way he'll realize that things don't have to change just because he confided his feelings for you.
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