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I was talking to my friends like an hour or more earlier and they were at one friends' house hanging out. Since they were going to leave his house soon, they told me they were going to another friend (he lives like 2 minutes walk away from me)to watch a movie and that they'd call me when they get there so i can go over. They told me they'd call me in 10 minutes but they didnt, so i called them like 5 minutes ago and they were like "oh yeah, we're watching the movie right now". They didnt even invite me or remember that they were suppose to call me or anything. Needless to say, Im annoyed and slightly hurt. I don't know if i have a right to be. There's like five of them and not one of them bothered calling me or asking me if i was coming over. My friend was like "Yeah we're watching the movie.. why are you calling us?" I didnt feel like explaining that I thought i was invited... apparently i wasn't? I dont know. So now I'm quite upset.. my question is do I have a right to be? Or am I just overreacting?

Yes, you have a right to be mad! I would personally be enraged..but that's just me. They said they were gonna call you but they didn't, and that's understandable that you would be upset. However, I don't think you should confront them about it..just let it go instead of making it into something that shouldn't be made into. They may have just forgotten to call you. I understand why you're mad and you def. have a right to be upset because it was kind of rude of your friend to say "Yeah we're watching the movie.. why are you calling us?" when they OBVIOUSLY said they were going to call you back. Just let it go this time..and if it happens again, confront them.

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(Rating: 5) thanks i got it solved =)

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