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Alright so im 13/f and my cousin is 23/f. shes been dating her boyfriend for 2 years and she broke up with him and so he killed himself. he warned her that if she broke up with him he'd kill himself. hes only 23! or was..
anyway, him and her dad didnt get along very well. i feel so bad for him bcuz he was brokenhearted but he was a HUGE JERK! His parents are blaming it on HER! I feel so bad 4 her and im not gonna get into details of what he said but he was like "dont worry baby it's not your fault, you arent doing this to me" just to make her feel worse! what can i do to make her feel better? im kinda shy around her cuz i barely know her but i wanna make her feel better please help!

awee oh my god!! that`s so sadd. But anyway, what you could do to help her get through this & make her feel better is just talk to her tell her of how good of a person she is, even though you don`t know her that well. You need to spend as much time with her as possible & talk to her like you`ve known her for your whole life, be really nice to her. And explain to her that there are so many other guys in the world that would love to be with her, and remind her of how big of a jerk that guy was to her when they were going out. Just be there for her, and remind her that you wouldn`t want her to spend her life regreting something that isn`t her fault, just because some idiot decided to kill him self... isn`t her fault, AT ALLL! good luck! & I hope I helped ♥

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(Rating: 5) thanks soo much! i really appreciate it!!
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